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Hello FMRL World! 

The dreaded red and pink holiday is upon us.  No need to run and hide or smash all the heart shaped boxes you can find. 

Instead, watch this hilarious video about why I think Valentine’s Day sucks. 

It’s sure to make you laugh, and after I rip this annoying holiday to shreds, I provide awesome Valentine’s Day advice for whatever relationship situation you are in:

• Single and lonely
• Just started seeing someone
• Been in it for a while

Please watch and share with all of your friends.  You could make someone’s week!

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If you want to give yourself a special Valentine’s Day gift that is sure to invite some real love into your life, check out Jessica’s Inner Circle and start attracting your Mr. Right today!!!!!

Remember, Real Love is out there.  Never settle for less!

Jessica Sabatini, Relationship and Dating Coach from FindingMyRealLove.com

Rated PG-13 for cussing.  (unlike my regular videos which I guess should be rated M for Mature)

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I don’t know about you, but I am already feeling the hustle and bustle of the holidays. It’s this excitement and dread all wound up together is a sparkly ball of mess.

And when you’re single, on top of all of the usual holiday stress, you may experience some longing or loneliness or pressure from yourself or others.  You know, the well-meaning aunt who smiles and asks, “So, when are you going to find someone special?”

Meanwhile, you are surrounded by couples, and half of them are in these totally dysfunctional, f@#&ed up relationships…

Missed the live call? Listen here for free for a limited time…

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Left click to listen in your browser or right click as select “save as” to save the file to your computer.

I don’t know about you, but I am already feeling the hustle and bustle of the holidays.  It’s this excitement and dread all wound up together is a sparkly ball of mess. 

And when you’re single, on top of all of the usual holiday stress, you may experience some longing or loneliness or pressure from yourself or others.  You know, the well-meaning aunt who smiles and asks, “So, when are you going to find someone special?”

Meanwhile, you are surrounded by couples, and half of them are in these totally dysfunctional, f@#&ed up relationships Continue reading →

Often women come up to me and say, “You can tell me the secret.  I already know: you have to love yourself first, and then someone can love you.”  But I actually disagree.

I believe that learning to love yourself is a lifelong journey which can be enhanced by having a loving partner standing next to you. 

There are some women who argue with me and insist that you must fully love yourself before it is possible for anyone else to love you, and all of these women have been single for decades. Continue reading →

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A huge barrier that I see getting in the way of women experiencing real love is staying in relationships too long.  You don’t have to make every relationship work!

The problem is, you may be investing time and energy into a relationship with the wrong guy, Continue reading →

This week’s Tweetable:

Let’s talk about financial mistakes from your past which may be getting in the way of you finding real love in the present. 

A few weeks ago, I was having a Finding My Real Love Power session, which is a private coaching session where we get to identify exactly what is getting in the way of your finding love, and after this woman told everything she’s been doing to meet men and her desires, she said, “But, I have a big chunk of debt.  I feel like I should pay that off before I fall in love with a man because I don’t want to be a burden to anyone else.” Continue reading →

This week’s Tweetable:

Today we’re going to talk about how easy it is in this age of text and email to misinterpret what a man is saying to you, especially if his communication is very brief.

I’ll give you an example from my own life:

I’m working on a project with a guy, and I sent him an email with all my thoughts and ideas and asked for feedback.  His reply was, “Let’s talk on the phone.  I have a busy week.”  Then, I start questioning what he thinks of me and whether or not he really wants to work with me.  So, I stop and open up an email to him, “I need more than that.  I can read too much into such a short reply.”

To which he replies, “Let’s conversate.”  Oh no!  Continue reading →