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Finding Real Love has nothing to do with making
every man want you. It's about real life, real feelings,
and real love for the Real You. Here's how…


GUEST POST: Online Dating Profile Pictures, Please shoot me! – by Elizabeth Galecke

DSC_7613websmallcreditedOne of the most difficult but most important choices you will have to make as you are putting together or updating your online dating profile are your photographs. Women are so critical of themselves and so often aren’t happy with photographs of themselves, so when it comes to posting photos that could possibly attract a date, it is often torture choosing what to post. It doesn’t have to cause panic or make you want to shoot yourself… Unless it is with a camera for a selfieJ

First there are some general rules that make sense to follow. Make sure the photos Continue reading

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Valentine’s Day is Almost Here!!!

Hello FMRL World! 

The dreaded red and pink holiday is upon us.  No need to run and hide or smash all the heart shaped boxes you can find. 

Instead, watch this hilarious video about why I think Valentine’s Day sucks. 

TURN UP THE VOLUME!!!

It’s sure to make you laugh, and after I rip this annoying holiday to shreds, I provide awesome Valentine’s Day advice for whatever relationship situation you are in:

  • Single and lonely
  • Just started seeing someone
  • Been in it for a while

Please watch and share with all of your friends.  You could make someone’s week!

Tweetable:

“Hilarious video: 7 Reasons Why Valentine’s Day Sucks! Gotta watch.” Click to Tweet

 

If you want to give yourself a special Valentine’s Day gift that is sure to invite some real love into your life, check out Jessica’s Inner Circle and start attracting your Mr. Right today!!!!!

Remember, Real Love is out there.  Never settle for less!

Jessica Sabatini, Relationship and Dating Coach from FindingMyRealLove.com

 

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How to Ask a Guy Out or Make the First Move?

TURN UP THE VOLUME!

I know some of you out there are thinking, “No way.  That is his job.”  I’ve even had clients who tell me “If he isn’t confident enough to talk to me first and ask me out, than he is not worth my time.”

Then from the same woman, I will hear, “He was so cocky; he just came up to me and started talking and asked me out right away.  But, I said no because I don’t want to date a guy with that big of an ego!”

And we wonder why men are so confused and don’t know what to do.  Continue reading

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Where in the World Have I Been?

At a work dinner recently, the woman next to me said, “Where in the world have you been?  I am a passionate follower of your blog, and you just dropped off the face of the planet.  You are missed!”

Well, the truth is, I’ve been really f@&%ing sick.  We are talking shingles, organs not functioning properly, hormone imbalance; the whole gamut.  (Oh yeah, and as soon as I healed, my husband got seriously ill)

You may be asking, “How could this happen to Jessica, the queen of staying positive, in balance, and getting things done?”  To which I can reply in one word: MAX. Continue reading

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For the Woman Who Has Done Everything Right, and Still No Man

Do you feel like you’ve read a ton of books on love and done a million exercises and are frustrated that you still don’t have love?

Then you have to listen to this audio clip from my latest Inner Circle Q&A call.  It’s nine minutes long (not for the faint of heart), but if you feel like you’ve done everything to “manifest” your man, and he still isn’t showing up, then it’s worth every second.

 

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How to Act When You Meet a Guy You Like


This week’s Tweetable:

“Meet a Guy you like? Instead of buzzing around like a busy bee, be the honey!” Click to Tweet

We are powerful women who know how to get things done. You present us with a situation or challenge, and we think, “Okay, how do I make things happen?” Then you figure out what needs to be done and do those things to make it happen.

So, when you meet a guy you like, it’s almost like you can’t help yourself; it’s in your programming Continue reading

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Valentine’s Day is Almost Here!!!

Hello FMRL World! 

The dreaded red and pink holiday is upon us.  No need to run and hide or smash all the heart shaped boxes you can find. 

Instead, watch this hilarious video about why I think Valentine’s Day sucks. 

It’s sure to make you laugh, and after I rip this annoying holiday to shreds, I provide awesome Valentine’s Day advice for whatever relationship situation you are in:

  • Single and lonely
  • Just started seeing someone
  • Been in it for a while

Please watch and share with all of your friends.  You could make someone’s week!

Tweetable:

“Hilarious video: 7 Reasons Why Valentine’s Day Sucks! Gotta watch.” Click to Tweet

 

If you want to give yourself a special Valentine’s Day gift that is sure to invite some real love into your life, check out Jessica’s Inner Circle and start attracting your Mr. Right today!!!!!

Remember, Real Love is out there.  Never settle for less!

Jessica Sabatini, Relationship and Dating Coach from FindingMyRealLove.com

 

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Don’t Have to Love Yourself First: Busting the Myth!

Often women come up to me and say, “You can tell me the secret.  I already know: you have to love yourself first, and then someone can love you.”  But I actually disagree.

I believe that learning to love yourself is a lifelong journey which can be enhanced by having a loving partner standing next to you. 

There are some women who argue with me and insist that you must fully love yourself before it is possible for anyone else to love you, and all of these women have been single for decades. Continue reading

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Is He Worth Your Time or a Waste of It?

How to Tell If He’s Worth Your Time or a Waste of Time
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A huge barrier that I see getting in the way of women experiencing real love is staying in relationships too long.  You don’t have to make every relationship work!

The problem is, you may be investing time and energy into a relationship with the wrong guy, Continue reading

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Why Isn’t He Making a Move?

Recently I’ve had three different women ask me about essentially the same situation.  They’ve all said, “I’ve been seeing this guy for a few weeks, and he hasn’t made a move.  What’s going on there?”

One of them was insightful enough to add, “It’s weird, because I’m always complaining that men are only interested in sex, Continue reading

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