The other day, I was having lunch with a male colleague – a fellow relationship guru-and about halfway through the conversation, he turns to me and asks, “So do you insist that your clients be a certain weight and attractiveness level?”
I said, “Of course not! Why on earth would I do that?”
His response was, “Well, you have to admit that the more attractive a woman is, the more likely she is to get a man.”
I thought about that for a minute and then said, “I am interested in helping women find real love. I am not in the business of helping a woman become popular on some random online dating website.”
So, I would like to clear this up right now, right here:
What you look like has very little to do with your ability to experience a loving, lasting relationship. How you feel about yourself, as a whole, has a lot to do with your ability to be in a relationship of giving and receiving love, and to find that in your life. Continue reading →
One of the most difficult but most important choices you will have to make as you are putting together or updating your online dating profile are your photographs. Women are so critical of themselves and so often aren’t happy with photographs of themselves, so when it comes to posting photos that could possibly attract a date, it is often torture choosing what to post. It doesn’t have to cause panic or make you want to shoot yourself… Unless it is with a camera for a selfieJ
First there are some general rules that make sense to follow. Make sure the photos Continue reading →
I know some of you out there are thinking, “No way. That is his job.” I’ve even had clients who tell me “If he isn’t confident enough to talk to me first and ask me out, than he is not worth my time.”
Then from the same woman, I will hear, “He was so cocky; he just came up to me and started talking and asked me out right away. But, I said no because I don’t want to date a guy with that big of an ego!”
At a work dinner recently, the woman next to me said, “Where in the world have you been? I am a passionate follower of your blog, and you just dropped off the face of the planet. You are missed!”
Well, the truth is, I’ve been really f@&%ing sick. We are talking shingles, organs not functioning properly, hormone imbalance; the whole gamut. (Oh yeah, and as soon as I healed, my husband got seriously ill)
You may be asking, “How could this happen to Jessica, the queen of staying positive, in balance, and getting things done?” To which I can reply in one word: MAX. Continue reading →
Do you feel like you’ve read a ton of books on love and done a million exercises and are frustrated that you still don’t have love?
Then you have to listen to this audio clip from my latest Inner Circle Q&A call. It’s nine minutes long (not for the faint of heart), but if you feel like you’ve done everything to “manifest” your man, and he still isn’t showing up, then it’s worth every second.
We are powerful women who know how to get things done. You present us with a situation or challenge, and we think, “Okay, how do I make things happen?” Then you figure out what needs to be done and do those things to make it happen.
So, when you meet a guy you like, it’s almost like you can’t help yourself; it’s in your programming Continue reading →
Often women come up to me and say, “You can tell me the secret. I already know: you have to love yourself first, and then someone can love you.” But I actually disagree.
I believe that learning to love yourself is a lifelong journey which can be enhanced by having a loving partner standing next to you.
There are some women who argue with me and insist that you must fully love yourself before it is possible for anyone else to love you, and all of these women have been single for decades. Continue reading →
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